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The old saying is that in real estate, everything is negotiable. But is it really?

When you go to buy a house, you’re certainly hoping to get the best price and terms. To do that, you need to know when to start negotiating and when to stop. That begins with being familiar with the market, down to the neighborhood and maybe even the street.

If there are more homes for sale than people who want them, there is usually more room for negotiation than if there’s a shortage of inventory, as is the case in many desirable neighborhoods throughout the country.

“All those deals of the century are gone,” says Sheila Rugege Dantzler, a broker with Related Realty in Chicago. “The deal of the century is ‘I got a good property that meets my needs.’ If you get it, then you win.”

The pace of home sales has slowed since last year in many cities, and buyers are gaining a little more leverage. Plus, many buyers are dealing with sellers who don’t realize that home prices are not rising as fast as last year. That creates opportunities for negotiation on some homes – but not all.

“It’s definitely a seller’s market,” says Jordan Clarke, an agent with Redfin in San Diego. “Buyers have a little more breathing room, but they’re still not in the driver’s seat.” But some neighborhoods and price ranges are still hot, he says. In San Diego, for example, “If there’s anything under $700,000, it’s off the market right away.”

[See: A Step-by-Step Guide to Homebuying.]

With home listings so accessible online, some would-be buyers may think they don’t need a real estate agent. It’s easy to find a house online, but it’s harder than it appears to get from offer to closing. A good agent, with knowledge of the market and negotiation experience, can make the difference between a successful purchase and a deal that falls apart. In most cases, buyers pay nothing to use an agent because real estate commissions are covered by the seller.

“This will probably be the single largest purchase that you’ll ever make,” Dantzler says. “You need a trusted party negotiating on your behalf.”


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Get your finances in order before you start looking for a house. Your offer is much less persuasive if it doesn’t include a mortgage preapproval. Dantzler won’t show homes to buyers until they are preapproved, and sometimes that process can take several months.

Do the math before getting too hung up on small price differences. At an interest rate of 4.3 percent, the difference between $195,000 and $199,000 is $19 a month. Don’t get stubborn and lose the right house because you had to win.

Base your offer on the home value, not the list price. The recent sales in the neighborhood give you and your agent ammunition and information. If a home is priced at or below market value, you’re unlikely to get it for less. If it is priced above market value and has been on the market for a while, a lower offer accompanied by a market analysis may get you the home. This is where a good agent can be invaluable.

[Read: 7 Homebuying Mistakes to Avoid.]

If you see a home you like, be prepared to move fast. “When properties go on the market, they go very quickly,” Dantzler says. If you’re in a competitive market, make your first offer your best offer, advises Brendon DeSimone, a real estate broker in New York and author of “Next Generation Real Estate: New Rules for Smarter Home Buying & Faster Selling.” And if you take too many chances, you might strike out. “There will always be people who want to make a lower offer,” Dantzler adds. “When they miss out on the first or the second or the third property, they learn their lessons.”

Don’t assume that the inspection will allow you to reopen negotiations. It’s certainly acceptable to ask for a credit if the inspection reveals major problems. But in a tight market, you may not get it. These days, it’s unlikely that a seller will make significant repairs, and you’re better off asking for a credit at closing so you can hire your own contractors. In some hot markets, prospective buyers do an inspection before making the offer so they can submit an offer with fewer contingencies.

If you don’t ask, you don’t get. Even if the market is tight, feel free to ask for repairs or other concessions, but understand that you won’t get it all. “Once you’re in escrow, you have the power,” Clarke says. He advises waiting until the end of the inspection period to make your requests. “The more you ask for, the better your result is going to be,” he says. “One-fourth of 100 is more than one-fourth of 50.”

Find out why the seller is moving. The more you know about the seller, the more you can tailor your offer. Does the seller already have a new place and want a quick closing? Is there a divorce involved? Does the seller not have a new place and therefore would prefer a longer closing or even a rent-back agreement? “You have to ask a lot of questions of the listing agent and the seller,” DeSimone says. “The more you know about the seller, the better strategy you can put together.”

Use public records and online real estate listings to do research. Focus on gathering information about the seller, the property and the neighborhood. You can find out if the house is in foreclosure, whether the seller is party to a divorce proceeding, see the Google street view and determine whether the house has been on the market before and at what price.

Redfin, Zillow, Trulia and Realtor.com offer different tools, so look at the property and the neighborhood on all of them. “The more information you have as a buyer, the more confident you’re going to be,” Clarke says.

[Read: The Best Online Tools for Your Housing Search.] 

Expect to compromise. No matter your price range, you won’t find a perfect house. You’re likely to have to compromise on features and probably even on the big three: price, size or location. Enter your negotiations prepared to compromise, and you’ll be a step ahead.

Don’t get hung up on decor. There are a lot of things about a house that can be easily changed, including appliances, countertops, carpeting and dated window treatments. Let the little things go.

Remember that terms can be as important as price. That could mean removing inspection contingencies, making a bigger down payment, accepting the contents with an estate sale or changing the closing date to accommodate the seller. “The fewer contingencies you have … the more likely you are to get the house,” Dantzler says.

Consider writing a personal letter with your offer. Clarke includes letters and photos of the prospective buyers with most offers. “It puts a face and a picture and a story,” he says. “It’s not just another offer the sellers are looking at. It’s a person. It’s a family. … People want someone like them to enjoy the property as much as they did.”


Weird Home Features That May Confuse Homebuyers


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What your home says about you might not help it sell.

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Giving a home a personal look and feel is important to many homeowners, as it not only makes you more comfortable but also provides a sense of ownership. But that all goes out the window when it comes time to sell your home. Suddenly, those custom design touches can be a liability in attracting interested buyers or getting the sale price you’re hoping for. Real estate agents weigh in on home upgrades that might make potential buyers scratch their heads, and how sellers can work around them.

Urinals

Urinals

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This ultimate finishing touch to a man cave bathroom might get a few stares during home tours. But having a urinal shouldn’t keep people from buying the house, says Greg Cooper, manager and broker at Berkshire Hathaway Home Services in Indianapolis. “You’re catering to 49 percent of your audience here, so people just kind of stand there like, ‘Wow, don’t see many of those,’” Cooper says. “I don’t know if they’re put off by it – they just kind of think it’s maybe unuseful.”

Nods to history

Nods to history

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Especially if you have an old home, you might be inspired to return the interior to its 19th-century glory days, complete with a wood-burning stove and a soaking tub in the kitchen. Doing so could leave you with a limited buyer pool, but marketing the home as historically authentic could make the sale a success. “As long as people know what to expect when they’re walking in, they know it might be a house for them. It’s not so much a turnoff as a preference,” says Joanna Williams, managing broker for Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate Kansas City Homes in Liberty, Missouri.

Secret rooms

Secret rooms

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A hidden passageway might sound like a fun idea – or a safe one if you’re adding a panic room – but be sure it doesn’t come off as creepy when you put your house on the market. Make any hidden rooms or security spaces fit with the floor plan, recommends Jeff Knox, owner of Knox & Associates Real Estate Brokerage and author of a blog focused on the Dallas real estate market. “If someone converted a closet into a panic room and tried to hide it, it looks way out of place, and that would turn somebody off,” he adds.

Sports rooms

Sports rooms

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Watching the game wouldn’t be complete without the memorabilia of your favorite team adorning the TV room as you cheer them on, right? Before putting your home on the market, you might want to neutralize a sports-themed room to avoid distracting buyers, especially die-hard fans of a rival team. “You don’t want to sell an Alabama room to an Auburn fan, or a Michigan room to an Ohio State fan,” Cooper says. Downplay as much as you can, especially if the furniture and walls sport the team logo as well. “We always recommend they take the stuff down, and at least if they insist on leaving it up, just a couple items as opposed to the entire space,” Williams says.

Custom installations inspired by loved ones

Custom installations inspired by loved ones

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You love your family and friends a lot, but a permanent installation reminding you of them, such as a spouse's likeness on the wall or each family member's handprints adorning the front walkway, will be a difficult sell for anyone else. Cooper recalls touring a home that had a custom marble tub modeled after the seller’s first wife’s backside. “I can’t imagine getting in that tub if you’re anybody but her,” he says. The chances a buyer will be OK with keeping such a personal element in the home are slim. It also serves as a distraction, so replacing it before the home goes on the market might be best.

Garage conversions

Garage conversions

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Whether it’s for more space or to create the custom theme room of your dreams, converting your garage is going to take a toll on the value of your home. Knox says most buyers want a garage, and they certainly don’t want one that’s been altered lackadaisically. “A lot of times they’ll halfway convert the garage so it looks clumsy. They will drywall it in, but leave the garage door, or they’ll drywall the inside of the garage door, but on the outside it’s still a garage door,” Knox says.

Rooms inspired by Pinterest

Rooms inspired by Pinterest

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Increasingly, Williams says she and her colleagues have to talk to sellers about the room they overhauled entirely with Pinterest tutorials. While an attempt to save on redecorating is more frugal than paying a professional, if you don’t know what you’re doing the results can be disastrous. “There’s some tasteful things that can be done, but there can be also far too much Pinterest being done in there,” Williams says. Especially for floor and wall treatments, consult a professional first to avoid it affecting your sale price.

Cabinets for your kooky collection

Cabinets for your kooky collection

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A spare room is the perfect place to beautifully display the collection of action figures, stamps or artifacts you’ve been accumulating for years. But be careful when it comes to selecting custom cabinetry to house your prized possessions. Cooper says as long as cabinets don't affect primary rooms for buyers – master bedroom, master bath, kitchen, living room and dining room – they shouldn’t lower the value. But if the displays don’t match the architectural style of the house, Knox says it can throw off buyers since they know they’ll have to remove or replace them. “Very contemporary cabinets in a traditional home will kill it,” he says.

Built-in fish tanks

Built-in fish tanks

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If your aquarium is custom made for the area it takes up, it could pose a bigger challenge to the sale of your home. A fish tank will only be appealing to those that have or want fish, but anyone else will view it as something to be taken out and a space that needs decorating. “If you find a fish lover, that’s all well and good, but if not you’re probably going to want to take it out, and that involves removing it in some way and finishing the area that tank took up,” Cooper says. “Not a crisis, but there’s effort involved – and money.”

Stripper poles

Stripper poles

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We all knew something like this was coming. Whether it’s for exercise or weekend parties, a stripper pole in your home will be a major distraction for potential homebuyers. Williams explains a stripper pole keeps a potential homebuyer focused on who the seller may be, rather than what the home itself offers: “You want to be as vanilla as you can whenever somebody is looking at your house because they want to picture themselves into it. And [a stripper pole] absolutely is making a statement about your lifestyle.”

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Teresa Mears writes about personal finance, real estate and retirement for U.S. News and other publications. She was previously the real estate blogger for MSN Money and worked as the Home & Design editor for The Miami Herald. During her journalism career, she worked on coverage of immigration, religion, national and international news and local news, serving on the staffs of The Miami Herald, The Los Angeles Times and the St. Petersburg Times. She has also been a contributor for The New York Times and The Boston Globe, among other publications. She publishes Living on the Cheap and Miami on the Cheap. Follow her on Twitter @TeresaMears.

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